The French poet Charles Péguy once wrote these beautiful lines:
Nous nous taisons. Heureux ceux, heureux deux amis, qui s’aiment assez, qui veulent assez se plaire, qui se connaissent, qui s’entendent assez, qui sont assez parents, qui pensent et sentent assez de même assez ensemble en dedans, chacun séparément, assez les mêmes, chacun côte à côte, de marcher longtemps, longtemps, d'aller, de marcher silencieusement le long des silencieuses routes. Heureux deux amis, qui s'aiment assez pour (savoir) se taire ensemble. Dans un pays qui sait se taire. Nous montions. Nous nous taisions. Depuis longtemps nous nous taisions.
It refers to the silence that is rich in meaning and significance for two friends who know each other well. They do not need to speak very much. There is deep communication in their silent presence to one another. Happy the two friends who love each other enough to know to be silent together.
Today is World Communications Day. When Pope Benedict issued his message for the 2012 WCD back on January 24 (the early release is customary in order to allow reflection before the day itself), the topic of the message, given the occasion, seemed at first surprising. The theme was silence. In his text, Benedict made the case that silence and word require one another in order for authentic communication to flourish, not merely in a thesis-antithesis sense – although this is also true – but because “silence is an integral part of communication” and that when the two complement each another, “communication acquires value and meaning.”
How does this inherent mutuality work? First, silence is required for us to truly understand ourselves and for the formulation of our ideas – especially if they are to be of any depth – since they require a measure of contemplative reflection in order to come to fruition. This echoes Nicholas Carr’s thesis that “deep reading”, with its sustained repetitions, pauses, and slow absorption through reflection on multiple angles, is necessary for long-term memory retention, which in turn is the basis of what the tradition calls wisdom. If we have pondered something in silence we are better able to grasp its many possible connections and express it more clearly.
Second, silence is necessary for mutual listening: it requires and fosters a sensitivity to the other, and creates a space for a genuine communion between persons. In an age “when messages and information are plentiful, silence becomes essential if we are to distinguish what is important from what is insignificant or secondary” – thus silence is also needed for the discernment that is a constitutive part of authentic communication.
Benedict goes on to say that for this balance and integration between silence and word to take place, “it is necessary to develop an appropriate environment, a kind of ‘eco-system’ that maintains a just equilibrium between silence, words, images and sounds.” The Pope, it appears, has also as his concern the proper human integration with the digital environments of society.
If the major concern of contemporary chroniclers of digital effects on human consciousness is the drift towards perpetual distraction and cognitive superficiality, then perhaps a more intentional engagement with silence is the answer. Silence, in this case, should not be understood merely as the absence of noise – words, images and sounds – but rather as a rich, positive entity that lends its fullness to our experience of sense data. Perhaps the most significant thinker on the phenomenon of silence as a positive entity was the Swiss philosopher Max Picard, whose book The World of Silence, continues to be as relevant today as it was in the “radio era” in which he wrote it. If you can find this book, happy you (sadly out of print, those with copies tend to treasure them. If any reader would like a PDF version, I have scanned the book which I found in the U of T library, and will send it upon request).
Catherine Doherty's book Molchanie (the Russian word for silence) is also a good read on the value of silence for the spiritual life.
Let us ask ourselves how we live in silence to make our words and deeds more meaningful.
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